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All human beings have positive and negative qualities that we’re giving away our existence in this world, the positive qualities make us to be better people and thus transcend all those who surround us in a positive way, by adding attitudes and being a model or example worthy of imitation, but unfortunately those not so positive qualities that we have, also mark all those with whom we share part of our existence. All those attitudes that displease others, ourselves, are usually those who try to hide, judging that this is one of the causes by which we criticize, reject or in your case up to take advantage of us, causing us come to feel little valued, little understood and even sometimes not respected. We feel this way compels us by all means we have available within our reach, search for presenting a different image, with what we assume now if we will be accepted, respected, valued and that not until the felt us loved. It would be worthwhile to reflect, if it is not since childhood was where we learned to make use of these masks, which present a different image of our person, or perhaps in our stage of maturity when we feel empty, alone or sad, motivates us to make use of the mask at all goes well, where hide our feelings, because we aparentamos that before others that everything is going on wheels. Whereas, we only have a chance to live this experience of life and that sometimes make use of masks, causing much damage to ourselves, and all those that surround us, because we worn internally on trying to pretend something that I am not, creating mutual wounds that sometimes are difficult to heal and do not heal as easily. So we have the commitment to strive and be authentic, honest and sincere with ourselves and others as it is the only way to return to us sensitive and vulnerable, able to recognize and create bonds of deep and permanent belongings with all those around us. Of course that is required to reach this level of growth of a self-knowledge and a high degree of humility, to be able to measure our limitations and at the same time accept that we have errors and that it is feasible that in this period of self-knowledge and acceptance some negative aspects of our lives is to get better.
This is not an easy task, but nor is it impossible, only it would suffice to start each day by applying this principle, I am what I am where I am, only that way will arrive to find a degree of freedom and happiness in our relationships. Eng. Cesar x. of the Santos Hdez.Unidad Xalapa. Original author and source of the article